I struggled with communication in romantic relationships for most of my life
But I've cracked the code to making connective conversation the new normal
Just ask me how I know!
I've watched several of my own long-term and short-term relationships go down the toilet due to our toxic communication habits. I've also seen many other relationships around me strain and crumble for similar reasons.
When your communication patterns contribute to upset and disconnection, you gradually reinforce the association between negative feelings and your partner. The more you and your partner associate negative feelings with each other, the wider and deeper the gap between you becomes.
All you have to do to maintain your current level of suffering, or possibly even bring on the pain and energetic expense of a break-up or divorce, is keep repeating your communication patterns exactly as they are.
Books can be helpful, I've certainly read my share, but that route will take a lot of time, you'll probably have to read several, and as a couple you may not be able to transform what you read into new habits as soon as you'd like to.
Workshops, counselling, or coaching can be incredibly helpful, but that route will also take more time, it will definitely take a lot more money, and you'll have to make sure the person you choose to work with can actually help you.
Think about your partner for a minute, and ask yourself what they tend to want to be seen, recognized, or appreciated for in your relationship.
Also ask yourself how they tend to feel when that principle doesn't appear to be honored, recognized, or appreciated.
Send them a text message and offer them a little appreciation and empathy.
You can offer appreciation by simply stating that you've been thinking about them and how important _____ is to them, and tell them you appreciate them for valuing that principle.
You can offer empathy by telling them that you imagine that, if you were in their shoes and valued _____ the way they do, that you would also understandably feel _____ when it isn't appreciated or recognized the way they would like it to be.
And see what happens. That's it. Go ahead, do it!
This little exercise leverages the principle of empathy to potentially create such a shift, and it's just a tiny example of what you'll find inside this course.
When you've created a set of communication habits based on the principles you'll learn in this course, you'll find that the level of harmony, depth, and connection dramatically increases in your relationship.
When you've gained the key awareness and learned the core patterns I'll teach you in this course, it will be much easier to create positive outcomes together when you face conflict.
And more importantly, your conversations will naturally tend to create authentic connection instead of conflict in the first place.
You'll move through life challenges together with more ease and grace, and your lives will become more impactful to those around you.
You'll experience less relationship pain, and you'll feel more joy together.
IF THIS IS THE VIBE YOU WANT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP,
WELCOME TO
The Starter Kit is a self-paced, virtual education program that combines online learning (including a beautiful video series and exercises you can do alone or with your partner) with a powerful collection of downloadable tools to guide you step-by-step towards emotional safety and connection in your relationship
The Starter Kit includes:
Be the loving ruler of your inner world
What self-empowerment really means in relationships
How empowered people relate to their thoughts and feelings
Why being present to another depends on being present to yourself
What self-ownership means about how we respond to the thoughts, feelings, and actions of others
How to respond instead of react
How emotional responsibility creates more authentic flexibility for us
One super-quick way to avoid blaming your partner or making them wrong
The most powerful thing you can do to get unstuck from an untrue victim perspective
Nurture your capacity for healthy human connection
The relationship between empathy and human connection
The role of curiosity in empathy and why we struggle to remain curious
The relationship between empathy and human needs
What you need to be able to communicate in order to show empathy, and why you don't want to do it
How to effectively demonstrate understanding
What to leave out of your reflections to create connection
The relationship between empathy and compassion
Why sovereignty and empathy must go hand-in-hand
How empathy connects us with life
Set the stage for conversations that empower, connect, and heal
How to establish a conversational setting that fosters sovereignty and empathy
The 3 most common goals in sensitive conversations with your partner
The underlying commonality of all desired outcomes in sensitive conversations
Why clarifying your desired outcome is so important in difficult conversations
The basic structure of consent in dialogue
The fundamental boundaries required for safety in sensitive conversations
A simple way to anchor your conversations in the flow of higher intelligence
How to establish a relational dynamic that creates true safety and authenticity
Eliminate language patterns rooted in blame and control
How to use language patterns that foster sovereignty and empathy
The nature of language skills, when to use them, and when to let them go
Why uncalibrated language will always fail to create sustainable connection
How to speak in a raw, authentic way that doesn't beg for conflict
Why we so often tend to misinterpret our partners when they're being vulnerable
The critical difference between feelings and evaluations, and how to say what you mean
Why understanding universal human needs is necessary to create sustainable connection, and how to communicate them
How to create agreements that actually result in your and your partner's needs being met
How to get what you want without dishonoring your partner's sovereign will
And,
(Downloads)
A master cheat-sheet of everything covered in the course
Refer to the infographic while watching the videos and doing the exercises in the course
Review the infographic whenever you need an encouraging reminder of the principles
Challenge yourself to keep working on your biggest communication growth opportunities
A strategic sequence of illuminating questions
Memorize the core principles by looking at a specific conversation/situation through the lens of Evolutionary Conversations
Do your personal inner work by applying the core principles to a topic/situation before asking your partner to process with you
Maximize damage control if you've already had a rupture
Fillable form lets you type your answers into the document
A strategic sequence of illuminating questions
Listen instead of reading the questions for a more relaxed approach
Consider the questions while driving if you don't have time to write your answers
Turn the questions into a more meditative or contemplative experience
A guided visualization of an evolutionary conversation
Maximize your level of clarity about what you'd like to experience in your next conversation
Boost your confidence by getting your subconscious more on board with your intentions
Get more practice applying the core principles without involving your partner
A collection of language patterns to inspire your use of the core principles
See the principles in action to understand them better
Learn key sentence stems to anchor the principles and get rid of toxic language patterns
Refer to the new language patterns when you get stuck in your conversations
Challenge yourself to grow your skills to the next level
A guided contemplation and visualization about taking different perspectives
Empower yourself with additional information you might not be seeing
Deepen your level of empathy before you even talk to your partner
Get unstuck from a limiting personal perspective
Become more objective, resourceful, and aligned with your best self
If you aren't satisfied with the course, tell me within 30 days and I'll refund 100% of your purchase, no questions asked
This kit legit unlocked SO much potential for connection with my partner. It gave me the eloquence and the clarity to create conversations that deepen our co...
Read MoreThis kit legit unlocked SO much potential for connection with my partner. It gave me the eloquence and the clarity to create conversations that deepen our connection to both ourselves and each other. It's also helped me see where I was contributing to disconnection, and to become much more intentional and clear with my desires and my role in conversations. I feel better equipped to approach challenging conversations moving forward, and I love how universally the material can be applied. I can't rave enough about this roadmap. I feel much safer in exploring rocky terrain and deepening my authenticity. Thank you!!
Read LessRight from the first video I found myself identifying and unwinding my blindspots in communication. I saw the traps I was falling into when trying to talk t...
Read MoreRight from the first video I found myself identifying and unwinding my blindspots in communication. I saw the traps I was falling into when trying to talk to my partner about different issues. He watched the videos with me and we talked about them afterwards and I feel like it was very healing and opened a lot of things up for us. I was able to see the patterns where I was getting stuck and shift to having more compassion so it was easier for me to hear him and his perpective. Jason has really put together a beautiful and powerful program full of game changing insights that encourage subtle yet sustainable and impactful changes.
Read LessA transformational and inspiring course which could not have come at a better time for our relationship. My partner and I listened to Jason’s work together, ...
Read MoreA transformational and inspiring course which could not have come at a better time for our relationship. My partner and I listened to Jason’s work together, and have begun tweaking our communication styles with very promising results. The golden phrases for conversations really are golden! So grateful for Jason’s clarity and guidance.
Read LessI have been doing a lot of personal and spiritual work over the last year, so I thought I had some familiarity with several subjects covered before I went th...
Read MoreI have been doing a lot of personal and spiritual work over the last year, so I thought I had some familiarity with several subjects covered before I went through this starter kit. I was surprised at how much more I learned and amazed at the way Keen presents and arranges the information in more easily understandable and digestible bites. Deeper and more thorough than I was expecting!
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The program is self-paced, so it's really up to you, but it could be completed in as little as a week at about an hour per day.
You get lifetime access to everything hosted online, and you can keep all the downloads as long as you like. You'll have access to all future updates.
You can get major benefits doing the course on your own, and your relationship will benefit even more if you're able to do it with your partner.
Every bit of this material is *universal* and will benefit any romantic relationship, whether heterosexual or otherwise, monogamous or otherwise. In fact, these principles will benefit your communication with friends, family, and coworkers as well.
You can use the "Support" link below, or contact me any time at daringheart.com.
The Evolutionary Conversations Starter Kit is broken down into easily-digestible videos and tools that hold so much GOLD! The framework that Jason provides h...
Read MoreThe Evolutionary Conversations Starter Kit is broken down into easily-digestible videos and tools that hold so much GOLD! The framework that Jason provides helped me to better conceptualize how to approach tough conversations and navigate triggers in the future. My partner and I do our best to communicate even in conflict, so to have tangible tools now is such a boost in confidence! He was impressed as we reviewed all the course content. There are so many helpful nuggets to help us improve, while affirming what we’ve been trying so far. Ego is tricky, and I believe we should be constantly seeking ways to grow and expand. Whether you’ve been in a relationship for decades or you’re single, this course will give you the understanding to have powerfully effective and intimate dialogue with others.
Read LessAs somebody who coaches individuals myself I found that the way the course was laid out To be extremely helpful for someone who is just beginning their journ...
Read MoreAs somebody who coaches individuals myself I found that the way the course was laid out To be extremely helpful for someone who is just beginning their journey on relational awareness and for the experienced one as well. The tools and the audios really explain how to set yourself up to win in relating with others. I really loved some of the music that was very relaxing with the audios and I liked his calm voice that made my mind open up to hear and receive more, as well as the questions that helped me retain the information. I am going to download all of the material and keep it handy as I practice healthier relating patterns thank you daring heart!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Read LessI very much enjoyed Jason Keen’s course on Evolutionary Conversations. I can clearly see how it will help reduce anxiety around difficult and courageous - bu...
Read MoreI very much enjoyed Jason Keen’s course on Evolutionary Conversations. I can clearly see how it will help reduce anxiety around difficult and courageous - but necessary - conversations. Jason’s calm, clear, and concise teachings of enlightened conversations marry ancient traditional concepts like Buddhism with modern methods of nonviolent communication and NLP, bringing old ways of relating to the new paradigm of honoring each other’s sovereignty in a new light, and explains what that really means. Compassion, empathy, deep listening, clear, respectful boundaries, honoring each other’s sovereignty, reducing emotional charges and triggers, self-accountability, and holding space with real tools that take into account one’s ability and resources to engage at any given moment in time, equipping us to be able to assess ourselves and our partner for clear and healthy interactions. This course includes comprehensive preparation tools, and also touches on how to allow space in the relationship for Spirit/Source/the Divine to become an integral part of evolving, harmonious consciousness both within (first for ourselves) and without (interacting with those we care most about). The material is presented in a polished way, yet Jason instructs in calm, down-to-earth ways on how to create and maintain a SAFE and nurturing container for authentic connection. He creates a place on the leading edge for a beautiful island of calm for those seeking to embody the higher frequencies and characteristics of the Divine Feminine and Masculine, in a world starving for this Light of evolved, conscious connection. - A J James
Read LessFirst of all, I would like to express my sincere gratitude to Jason Keen, for bringing this gift of his life experiences and his purposeful work into fruitio...
Read MoreFirst of all, I would like to express my sincere gratitude to Jason Keen, for bringing this gift of his life experiences and his purposeful work into fruition so that people like me who resonate, are provided information and guidance. I can feel his heart and sincerity as he delivered the principles and guidance. It felt as if he was narrating my life story and mybstruggles with my communication in my personal life. As I was listening to him guiding me through the principles, step by step, his tone and pace allowed me the right vibe and space to watch myself in my own struggles and successes in my transactions and dynamics with people I've met in my journey, whether professional or personal. I was able to identify and acknowledge areas where I'm falling short and needed more coaching and strengthening while at the same time, seeing areas where I am able to help others be more open and receptive. The Evolutionary Conversations Starter Kit in my opinion, is a great insight to what I am holding on to that no longer serves my current life. It is well prepared, from the quality of the audio, presentation materials...even the choice of music has been carefully considered, I felt. The way Jason presented his gift of his life's work is an EMBODIMENT of the very principles of the "Evolutionary Conversations" he is passionate about sharing with the world. Thank you so much from my heart, Jason. I humbly and highly recommend his teachings to anyone who are ready to shift in their relationships, starting with their relationship with themselves. I personally resonated with his and Daring Heart's work.
Read LessHow to Use the The Evolutionary Conversations Starter Kit
Overview
DOWNLOAD: The Core Principles Info-Graphic
DOWNLOAD: Prep Guide: Fillable Form
DOWNLOAD: Prep Guide: AUDIO Version
DOWNLOAD: Mental Rehearsal AUDIO Session
DOWNLOAD: 101 Golden Phrases Ebook
BONUS! DOWNLOAD: NLP Meta-Mirror AUDIO Session
Intro to The Core Principles
Growth Mindset Reflection
Core Principle 1: Sovereignty
Sovereignty Reflection
Sovereignty Exercise
Core Principle 2: Empathy
Empathy Reflection
Empathy Exercise
Core Principle 3: Sacred Containers
Sacred Containers Reflection
Sacred Containers Exercise